Opinions Are Like Buttholes!

Do you exhaust your good energy on what others think of you?


Do you 'overthink' what someone has said and then start focusing on 'why' they said it.


If you're anything like me you will easily agree that other's opinions of you play a huge emotional effect on your self-esteem and beliefs.


Most of my life I have grown up extremely sensitive to the opinions of others. Sadly it created huge self-esteem issues where I have stop pursuing what I love just to make sure the other person won't judge me.

I say, SCREW THAT!

When there is no light, be the light.

Peoples opinions are like buttholes, Everyone has one.


I laughed hard when I read that.

Not because it's silly but because there is actual truth to these words.


We live in a world that is mixed with different types of personalities and with that comes different types of opinions. The reason we care so much about what others think of us is because we are so afraid that we won't succeed by being our true authentic selves.


Self-esteem plays a huge role in this.


Be the best sparkling you.

You are going to encounter other people's opinions but it is how you react that determines the effect of these words. Even though words don't physically hurt you, emotionally they will. This is why we need to build our self-esteem up as our protector so that we can confidently move forward with our life purpose.


As much as it sucks to have someone put you down about what you love doing just remember that this is actually a good thing to hear.


It means YOU are DOING something RIGHT.




I am doing something right because someone is negative about it, HUH?


Yes!


When someone thinks differently to you and it makes you feel crappy, Then that is a telltale sign that you are actually on YOUR right path.


You care so much about what you believe in doing that it hurts when someone doesn't appreciate or possibly understand your why. By caring about other opinions that have a negative outlook is actually a huge indicator that you RESPECT and LOVE what you do, otherwise you wouldn't be so hurt?


This should be a bigger motivator rather then what they care about?


If you didn't care and you agreed with what they had to say then you already know the answer. However, if someone's opinion makes you feel less, then you are doing something right because it doesn't resonate with your true inner belief by hearing what they have to say.


This then comes back to self love and respecting yourself enough to walk away from an opinion that doesn't feel good or serve you in a positive way.


Your time is way too valuable to be wasting on people that can't accept you for who you are.


Let them think whatever they want to think. It is a HUGE waste of time when you are constantly thinking about what others think of you.


Gurl! That sentence was even draining to write haha.


I listen & follow my heart

You are actually doing their job by thinking and caring so much about their opinion. And, we don't have that time or energy, do we!


When someone states a negative opinion, Thank them for their feedback and happily keep moving forward with the confidence that you have complete control of your emotional mindset knowing that this doesn't disturb your beliefs.


You don't have to ask other people for permission to be great!

Validate your own damn existence. Even if that means you are alone in a cafe typing a blog article then so be it! haha. You have to love you first and your WHY. Then the right tribe will follow. You don't need others to tell you what to do and the permission to do so.


Their opinion does not define you, only how you see yourself defines you.


With a mix of self-love and the understanding that opinions are like buttholes, you can say 'screw that' and keep on being your beautiful self.


Never dim your light.