What do you mean you date ... fashion?
Well, I mean exactly that.
I have a fashion type!
So there is this trend right.
I don't mean a fashion trend where Kylie Jenna has just announced a new makeup range and everyone is purchasing an express ticket to trend city.
What I am talking about is 'I date fashion' kind of trend.
To tell the story I am going to compare the two with dating 'real people' & 'dating fashion.'
WE STICK TO WHAT FEELS RIGHT
Stage 1: You have just entered the deciding phase.
Let’s say right now you are scrolling on tinder and you are flicking through the vast range of candy options. You swipe right as a possible consideration and you swipe left for a ‘hell no.’ The same goes for online shopping and browsing in-store. You go through multiple online fashion tabs such as dresses, skirts, accessories or you flick through the racks with a quick no, no, no OOO yes and grab.
Oh! How exciting is this stage. So many options!
SHOP FOR THE PERFECT FIT AND END UP WITH ALL THE SAME
Stage 2: You are now at the 'finding Mr right' phase.
By now you have started a connection with some of your candy matches on tinder and you are getting the feels whether they are going to fit perfectly in your life or not.
Just like shopping you have to try them all on...right ;)
So what's interesting about this is you tend to select the 'right' fit that will make you feel comfortable, beautiful, happy and feel bloody good. It's also going to be an investment on our end so we want to make sure it fits right with our lifestyle choices.
Humans will always stick to what makes them feel great by going to that comfort zone. We are creatures of comfort so anything in the past that triggers a familiar feeling will totally be purchased by us.
Stay with me ladies; This is still about fashion; However, the concept is the same as dating.
I'LL TAKE IT! ALL 4 OF THEM!
Stage 3: Welcome to the 'I need them all' phase.
You have just activated the 4 primary chemicals that drive your positive emotions:
The happy chemical
Relives stress & pain
Regulates movement & our emotional responses
The love hormone
These 4 emotions are SUPER powers to the mind which tend to take control of the left side of our brain (logical thinking) and force us into our emotional state.
This is powerful and dangerous because as I mentioned above... I'LL TAKE ALL OF THEM!
By now you have invested, you have carefully selected the right fit and potentially bought a Lil too much.
JUST LIKE AN ADDICTION
The final stage.
Stage 4: I am back on the market and '