You are a Diamond! It's time to start glowing like one
How to stop putting people on a pedestal? It's all to do with YOU!
You might not even realise that you are doing this!
It shows up in many ways however, one way we introduce the pedestal is through admiration. When you admire someone's talent or personality with so much intense emotion, you start feeling less than them. You think they have something MORE to offer. Some of you might consciously know this, but most may be doing this on a subconscious level.
So how do you know if you are doing this?
The Pedestal Thinking Game:
They have a better figure.
They make a lot more money.
They have stronger social connections.
They have a better personality than me.
They are the best and I am only good at...
Their relationship is always perfect!
Everyone loves them.
They are everything I'm not.
They are better than me.
Everything they seem to do just works!
They have their life together.
The minute you place someone on a pedestal you shrink your existence and you devalue yourself. When you do this, you become addicted to comparing and wanting the next level up, this becomes a vicious cycle.
So say you are a millionaire, you start hanging around these people or even billionaire's. You then want to be the next level up so you started to compare yourself to the billionaire's and it becomes an endless avenue of growth 'perfection.'
Okay, you might not be a millionaire haha I'm certainly not!
So here is more of a likelihood example:
You want to be a fashion blogger so you connect with other bloggers in your community. You come across a group of girls who have achieved a lot... A LOT more than you have per se. So you start comparing and placing them on a pedestal. Everything they seem to do you seem to think less of within yourself as if you can never be at their level. They have it all, the money, the relationship, the outfits, the lifestyle, and even the dog you want. You admire them, yes, but you are also devaluing your existence and journey.
Stop making everyone else important by putting everyone else above you.
Energetically you are putting out that you don't matter, that you are not important and that you can't get what you want. You will then attract this belief with the law of attraction throughout money, career, friends, relationship and life.
Life would be boring if we had nothing to achieve with growth
It is okay to be wherever you are right now!
None of us is any better than the other person, you are disempowering yourself by thinking this way. It is almost an excuse:
"They can do it because they are that way and I can't.'
If you have ever thought this statement, STOP!
Don't dismiss your own power of belief.
It is pointless comparing to others as you will always come across someone who seems to have it better off than you - It isn't true.
No one is better, a lot of us are flawed.
People you admire could actually be admiring something they see in you. Life is a journey of growth. Don't stop growing your full potential with the distracting thought that someone else is doing better.